It has become crucial to find some one for yourself, to love, to take care of and to be with. When you reach your late 20's and early 30's, you figure out that you are the one single and that the others are not. Your friends have got married and having kids, overall having a happy life. While you see holidays like Valentines Day pass by like a normal day waiting long for some one.
What if you found that you connected with someone really special, but he happened to be your friends ex? Is it normal to go forward with that relationship? Now it all depends on the circumstances. After all, you get tired of single bars, and having coffee alone.
Dating your friends ex completely depends on the way he/she has ended the relationship. If the past couple are having a normal lifestyle that of good friends, then maybe you can knock on the loved one's door.
Take it easy
Start smoothly with exchanging phone numbers and having long phone conversations that might go on for hours.
What to Talk: Better talk about your lives, aims, families and almost anything you can think of.
How to Handle
It becomes tricky at first because you might start dating in absolute secrecy, always afraid you'd run into the wrong person who would rat you out. The only stumbling block you would have will be telling your friend.
Judgment Day
It becomes a really nervous situation and feels uncomfortable as soon as the friend comes over. Things might fall in place or you might even lose a good friend. But you have to break the news to your friend, no matter what. Before someone else tells him/her, you better be the first one.
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